Hi everyone! Hope you’re all having a fun week! Today’s question from Mike makes it sound like maybe too much fun is going on!
Hey, I’m 23, i have one question… I really feels horny every day so i masturbate everyday 2 or 3 times a day this i’m doing from approx 2 years. I can’t control myself atleast doing once a day. So do i get any future problem having sex with my partner or is it natural. if yes how can i control myself.?
Well, I’m not much of an expert on male masturbation, but for a guy your age, that sounds at least within a range of what can be considered normal. i don’t think there are any problems it can cause other than maybe being too spent to fuck your girlfriend because you jerked off too much earlier that day.
I did a quick search on Reddit, and came up with these comments that seem to support my thoughts:
- I’m 22 Male. I’ve had my periods where i’ve masturbated a lot, say 4-5 times a day, during a few days/weeks. Then maybe once a day for a month or so. But lately i’ve downed it to say 2-3 times a week. I only do it when i really feel like it. I’ve had problems in bed, not being able to come, some times not getting it up. So I’ve completely stopped watching porn as well. My memories is enough. Due to less wanking and no porn my sex drive has gone up greatly, which in my opinion is a good thing.
- In my 50s, & generally a 2x/day guy. Life events have slowed that down but not age. You know, you’re just too busy to get busy……
- 18 M. I’ve stopped masturbating since I became increasingly sexually active with my girlfriend. then again, I had death grip, so it was for the better.
- 21 male here (22 in a month) Lately it’s been once a day with some days not at all. A year or two ago I went through a phase where it was hardly at all. Before that it was multiple times a day.
- 37 Male, 4- 7 times a day, I got ADHD and find it relaxes me alott!
- My forever alone-ness fucked me up pretty bad and I ended up fapping ~4 times a day for a few years.Then I watched a certain video and that’s when I stopped.Went 6 months without fapping,then came accidentally when I wanted to measure my penis and since then I’m 3 months and something clean again.My fapping just got out of hand (pun?) so I tried to stop and surprisingly it wasn’t even that hard (..) Wet dreams suck tho, if somebody was considering nofap to get them.They are the only thing making me wanna go back to fapping
- I’m 47 and masturbate on any day I don’t have sex with my partner (sometimes twice!). So in a typical week I’ll masturbate between 3 and 6 times and have sex between 1 and 3 times. I reckon if you don’t use it you lose it… 😉
Hope this helps! It really seems that there’s a wide range of frequency, and there are a number of factors that determine it. Age, stress, sex life, schedule, and many other things contribute. For you, Mike, I wouldn’t worry about anything. Sounds like you’re well within normal range.