Masturbation Frequency

Another quick question and answer here, as I get back into the swing of things. This is a question I get fairly often, in one form or another:

how often do you masturbate?

I’ll stimulate myself, not to climax, but just to get myself into a heightened state, probably daily. Certainly almost a guarantee anytime I’m flirting online, or just before going out for a fun night.

I’ll bring myself to climax probably weekly or so. This is usually during some kind of online play. If I’m having an orgasm during cybersex, I’m probably having one for real. There’s no real schedule to it, of course.

On another note, I’m looking for a real name for this column, something more original than “Ask Kristen” or somesuch. If you have any ideas, please let me know!



What do you normally wear every day? Is it jeans and a t-shirt or a suit and tie, or for the ladies, a dress or a tank top and shorts? My guess is that for most of us, we vary our attire, but we still have some sort of a “regular” set of attire that we wear, especially when going to work. And then perhaps it varies a bit for the evenings and weekends. I, for example, have a certain set of clothes I wear during the week to take care of business (usually a suit and tie), and then some more relaxing clothes that I generally wear on the weekends and evenings. But my point in writing this is not to figure out what you wear. Unless you are Kristen, and standing in front of me, then I want to know so that when it’s time to take it off, I will know how! Read more [+]

Limiting To Just Oral Sex

Someone from a long time ago asked me:

Do you limit sometimes to oral sex only?

My answer hasn’t changed much over the years. I’m a firm believer that oral sex does not need to be limited to just an appetizer. Every sexual act should be worth doing in and of itself. Mixing them up is, of course, fun. But what’s wrong with giving a blowjob and having that be it? There’s nothing wrong with that, especially if time is an issue. Sometimes oral sex is a great way to make a promise for later. Blowing a guy before a night out is a great way to let him know I want him to pounce on me the moment we get home!

Sometimes, I’ll be giving a bj and the guy decides that he can’t cum until he fucks me, and that’s something different. That’s spontaneous, that’s a desire for something else, and why stop that? My goal may have been just the blowjob, but if he wants more, I see no reason to stop him.

Or maybe the opposite will happen. I’ll be fooling around with a guy and one of us gets a phone call and has to leave (or something like that). Often I’ll change my plans then to just suck him off, so that we can wrap up quickly… and again, leave him eager to come back for more!

I never limit myself to oral sex only, but sometimes that’s the plan, and sometimes it goes that way anyway, and that’s just fine by me!


Chad: Reward (part 4)

[read all the entries for this series here]

So after my first (amazing) night with Chad, I woke up next to him in bed. He was still sleeping, so I got up and headed out of the bedroom. I looked around his kitchen and started making some coffee. Then I took another quick shower. I dried off, hanging the towel, and went out to get my coffee.

As I’m poured it, Chad comes out. He wrapped his arms around me from behind, kissed my neck and said, “Good morning, beautiful.”

I returned the embrace as best I could. His hands slid up and cupped my tits. I giggled. “You can’t get enough of them, can you?”

He chuckled and squeezed them together. “Just imagining what’s to come,” he said. “You want breakfast?”

I agreed. He threw together a quick breakfast of scrambled eggs, bacon, toast, and oj to go along with the coffee I’d made. We sat down to eat, both of us still completely naked. His eyes roamed my body all through breakfast, and I loved the way it made me feel. The look in his eyes was dead sexy. We talked about random things, and we talked about the night before, complimenting each other. I was aroused by the time we finished. As he cleared the dishes, he said, “So… last night, you promised something.”

“Oh?” I said, raising an eyebrow. “What was that?”

I expected him to get nervous and stammer as he tried to get it out, but he didn’t. He simply and bluntly said, “You promised you’d let me fuck your tits.” Read more [+]

The Plan

Way back in January, I posted that things would be starting up again here soon. Well, obviously, that didn’t quite happen. It’s mid-May now, and there have been no new postings since that January one. That’s about to change.

I won’t be keeping up the schedule that I had last year, but there will be more regular input from me than there has been recently. Here’s what’s coming up in the very near future:

  • The Ask Kristen column will be back, posting every Wednesday, starting next week. Be sure to send me plenty of questions to answer!
  • The fourth part (and conclusion) of my Chad story, which I had thought was posted, will be up by the end of this week.
  • Another story, “Frozen Stiff” will be up by the end of the month.
  • Articles by both jaysim83 and mischiefm8ker have been sitting by, and will be posted soon.

Some minor tweaks will be happening here as well, but nothing that should be terribly notable. As always, I want plenty of feedback about what you like and what you want! Don’t be shy!